Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Child Protection Gone Awry

Child protection agencies have gone completely haywire. My son is not allowed to see me because my ex tells evil, untrue stories about me. Child protection people get fired if they don't act against men, you know. Just say something evil about your husband, and he too can be separated from you and the kids until they are 18. The mother's stories need not be truthful. No prosecutor will be involved, and no police, if the husband leaves the house as "requested" of him. Does any intelligent person really think fathers who can't see their children are automatically offenders of some sort?

On the other hand, the authorities might take my son from his mother, too. I was told she once allowed a convicted child perpetrator, an adult male freshly out of jail, to live in her house and babysit my son. I recently heard she won't look for a new therapist for our young child. It was explained to me that she doesn't care enough about him to have his drug dosages adjusted either. I'm told she forces him to see an endocrynologist. Is this because his dad is not a giant behemoth? All the child needs is a bit of contact with his father's family to be assured one's normal stature is not a bad thing.

Monday, October 18, 2010

Stoneberger Men

Seth Stoneberger, younger son
David Stoneberger, older son
Mark Stoneberger, father

I lived with David and his mother from before David was conceived until he was 5 years old. Then, the judge granted me "generous" visitation rights which were honored by father and mother. I bought a house in a distant suburb and invited David's friends and cousins to stay with us during David's visits. When David turned 18, he was so used to his visitation schedule, he continued to honor it for quite some time.

I lived with Seth and his mother from before Seth was conceived until he was 2 years old. Then, the judge granted me normal visitation rights. Seth's mother fought this schedule for years. When Seth was 7 years old, his visits with me were stopped by his mother. When Seth was 11 years old, his visits with his paternal grandmother were stopped by Seth's mother. All manner of contact with the father's family has been halted by the mother.

Statistics tell us 80% of all prison inmates in America are men who did not grow up with their real father in the house. We worry for Seth. Seth's father's family and friends all pray for Seth.

Thursday, October 14, 2010

When Nobody Believes in You

When nobody believes in a man, he is blocked from visiting his children. The accuser (i.e., ex-wife) does not need to prove she's right. She simply slanders his good name and gets the children to herself...for as long as she wants.